Hi Jane,
I have been reading your blogs and they have really made me start to look at my life. The information is very helpful and also the advice of others that read your blog.
I am in so much pain. I recently got dumped by the disappearing man. It has been very hard because even though I felt like something was wrong and asked him throughout the relationship did he want to be with me he lied and said that he did.
My problem is I have read the blogs on letting go and your recently one today about using your head and heart, but am so angry.
I still want to see him, I still think about him, and I still want an answer to why even though I know there really is no reason for you to just disappear on someone without an explanation.
I feel like this may become an obsession and I do not want this to happen. I realize today that it will be going on a month since he disappeared from my life, but I seem to be focus on just that
